… Intermediate Forgiveness: Forgiving Yourself … Intermediate Forgiveness: Forgiving Yourself … Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting, nor does it mean that you've given the message that what someone did was okay. It just means that you've let go of the anger or guilt towards someone, or towards yourself. But that can be easier said than done. If forgiveness was easy, everyone would be doing it. You don't forgive someone for his or her sake - you forgive …